Fanning the Flames of Your Love Life How does your sex life rate? In a study of married couples, 31% had sex 2-3 times a week, 24% just once a week, and 23% 2-3 times a month. It is surprising…

What was Your Name Again? Asking this question is quite embarrassing at times and reminds me that forgetting someone’s name is an everyday occurrence. Memory, like other areas of life, is cloaked in myths that limit its capacity. Professor Mark…

What is Compatibility? When you are looking for a friend or a mate, the question of compatibility always is an important consideration. How well do you fit with someone? I have known people to rely on astrology to determine compatibility.…

True Love is Not a Free Lunch In Japan, women are the ones to send chocolates to their prospective mates on Valentine’s Day. What a relief this would be for the American male if this trend spread to the US!…

There is a Difference I remember a cartoon many years ago of two babies peeking into their diapers and saying, “There is a difference.” Would you also be surprised to know that men and women are really different? As many…

The Pangs of Love I have been saddened in my practice when people report that have had such bad experiences in their love life that they are no longer interested in any romantic relationship. Of course, when you have been…

Talk and Love When you meet someone who interests you, possibly as a life partner, you want to get to know that person better. In my profession, I get to know people through a comprehensive interview confined to an office…

Meeting People When you’re single and interested in having a relationship, meeting people helps. The best way to meet people is by pursuing your interests. You do need to keep an eye out for bigger groups of people because if…

Love is Never Lost The new year brings a change for this Natural Success column. Past articles have been about issues of the mind, one of the five Natural Success areas of life. With Valentine’s Day coming, it’s perfect timing…

Looking for a Lover What can be even worse than breaking up with your lover is the arduous process of picking yourself up and wanting to get involved in looking for a new lover. You can bring out the rules…